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Unique Anniversary Gifts

Momentous Memories for their Hearts and Minds

Unique anniversary gifts begin at home.

If there's a couple you know who are celebrating their anniversary or if you're looking to give your spouse that special something that holds (or will hold) the years of your marriage close to your heart, then start at home.

Your home, their home.

What is the evolution of their life?

What is in the forefront that epitomizes the stages of their marriage?

What do you need to acknowledge for them (or yourselves) that which makes the anniversary monolithic?

Unique anniversary gifts. Anniversary gift ideas. The perfect blend of your knowledge and the chart below is a great start for each anniversary gift.




Unique Anniversary Gifts are easier than you think.

Other than, let's say, the 25th Anniversary where it is customary to buy silver things for the celebration, it is often more interesting to buy what seems appropriate for the particular couple. What about an anniversary theme - what is the couple well known for? What has the couple done in their married life that can be celebrated alongside their anniversary? So... a gift for the 7th anniversary could be a copper colored tie holding a bouquet of Freesia, OR a monogrammed oyster-white sofa throw (linen) might be the "package" wrapped around a string of pearls and pearl cuff links for a 12th anniversary of marriage.

Can't find something appropriately steel for an 11th anniversary? Then get creative with turquoise colored Tulips. Get creative. The word tradition sticks out like a sore thumb but YOU think outside the box, remember? Have fun with it. Run with it.

Just remember the couple for who they are and remember who you are and the style in which you want to gift them.


Some History

While discussing Unique Anniversary Gifts:

Emily Post, the first published (American) author on etiquette informed us in 1922 that although only eight anniversaries were acknowledged, there was a trend toward celebrating other anniversaries.

She put together a list anniversary gift ideas for each of the first 15 years of marriage and one for every 5 years after. We still use this list today even after the American National Retail Jeweler Association upgraded it in 1937.

Using the idea that the longer a couple is married, the more substantial and lasting the gift should be to represent the years married, our society now uses the list below.

I've put a table together with as many options as could be found from various sources on the internet. Either widely accepted or rare or called alternates, this arrangement gives you scads of potential ideas for unique anniversary gifts.

Hmmm. If you think about it, this list is just a guideline, a starting point. What you make of it is entirely up to you. Follow the rules or make your own. Think past the common. Be aware of your desire to get a specific reaction from the gifts given by you.

And whilst your eyes dart back and forth in this table, you'll be getting sleepy....back and forth...sleepy...sleepier....and you'll start to think of an anniversary that is on the horizon....

Be sure to look over the unique anniversary gifts we've conjured up!

Anniversary Gift Ideas to Inspire Unique Anniversary Gifts

Year
Traditional
Modern
Flower
Gemstone
Color
1PaperclocksCarnation, Pansy, Orange BlossomGold Jewelry, Fresh Water Pearl, PeridotGold or Yellow
2CottonChinaLily of the Valley, CosmosGarnet, Rose QuartzRed
3LeatherCrystal, GlassSunflower, FuschiaPearl, Crystal, JadeWhite or Jade Green
4Books, Fruit & FlowersElectrical AppliancesGeranium (any kind), Hydrangea, Lily of the ValleyBlue Topaz, Amethyst, Blue ZirconBlue or Green
5WoodSilverwareDaisySapphire, Turquoise, Pink TourmalineBlue, Pink or Turquoise
6Sugar, Candy, IronWoodCalla LilyGarnet, Amethyst, TurquoiseWhite, Purple, Turquoise
7Wool, CopperDesk SetsFreesia, Arum (Jack in the Pulpit)Onyx, Lapis Lazuli, Copper, Yellow SapphireYellow or Off White
8Bronze, PotteryLinens, LaceLilac, ClematisTourmaline, Aventurine, TanzaniteBronze, Tourmaline, Tanzanite
9Pottery, Willow, CopperLeatherBird of Paradise, PoppyLapis Lazuli, Tiger EyeTerracotta
10Tin, AluminumDiamond JewelryDaffodil, NarcissusDiamond, Black Onyx, Blue SapphireSilver or Blue
11SteelFashion JewelryTulip, Morning GloryHematite, TurquoiseTurquoise
12Silk, LinenPearls, Colored GemsPeonyAgate, Pearl, Jade or Colored GemsOyster White
13LaceTextiles, FursChrysanthemum, HollyhockCitrine, Moonstone, MalachiteWhite
14IvoryGold JewelryOrchid, DahliaOpal, Moss Agate, Gold IvoryIvory
15CrystalWatchesRoseRuby, Rock Crystal (Quartz)Ruby Red
16PeridotSilver HollowareStaticePeridot, AquamarineSilver
17WatchFurnitureRed CarnationCitrine, AmethystYellow
18Cat's EyePorcelain-Cat's Eye, Chrysoberyl, OpalBlue
19AquamarineBronze-Aquamarine, TopazBronze
20ChinaPlatinumAster, Day LilyEmerald, Platinum, Yellow or Golden DiamondEmerald Green or White
21-Brass, Nickel-IoliteOrange
22-Copper-Spinel (all colors)Green
23Create your ownSilver Plateunique anniversary giftsImperial Topaz, SapphireSilver
24-Musical Instruments-TanzaniteLavender
25SilverSilverIris (any kind except blue)Sterling SilverSilver
26-Original Pictures---
27-Sculpture---
28-OrchidsOrchid (any kind)-Orchid, Lavender
29-Furniture---
30PearlDiamondLily (any kind), Sweet PeaPearls, Diamond, JadeGreen
31-Time Pieces---
33CreateAmethystyour ownunique anniversary gifts-
34-Opal---
35CoralJadeAfrican VioletEmerald, Coral, JadeCoral
36-Bone China---
37-Alabaster---
38-Beryl, Tourmaline---
39-Lace---
40RubyRubyGladiola, NasturtiumRubyRuby Red
41-Land---
42-Improved Real Estate---
43-Travel---
44-Groceries---
45SapphireSapphireBlue IrisSapphire, AlexandriteSapphire Red
46-Original Poetry---
47-Books---
48-Optical Goods---
49-Luxuries---
50GoldGoldYellow Rose, Violet (any kind)Gold, Imperial or Golden TopazGold
51-Blue Sapphire---
52-Ruby---
55Emerald, Emerald,TurquoiseCalla LilyAlexandrite, EmeraldEmerald Green
60Yellow DiamondDiamondOrchid (any kind)DiamondDiamond White
65Blue SapphireStar Sapphire, -Star SapphireSky Blue, Gray
67-Star Sapphire--Purple
70Createyour ownunique anniversary gifts-Platinum
75Diamond, Diamond-like Stones, Gold, AlabasterDiamond, Gold-DiamondDiamond White
80OakDiamond, Pearl---
85-Diamond, Sapphire---
90GraniteDiamond, Emerald---
95-Diamond, Ruby---
100-10k Diamond---

Each idea should be reckoned with, you reckon?

Check out these unique anniversary gifts and ideas:



4th Anniversary gift idea

Mascot of the Burn

After 4 years of marriage, there arises the probability that the family is starting to get a little larger.

Probably, the Mammas and the Pappas have to start thinking about the grocery bill and how it's getting higher and higher.

Probably, they're thinking "We better buy bulk," and "Where can we store all this stuff when we buy it for .99/pound?" and "Look at the deal on these apples, why I could make pies or Grunt," and "Well, how else can we save on groceries?"

Probably, as a wonderful family you could pitch together, maybe giving them a new freezer. Besides, the 4th anniversary gift giving schedule is fruit & flowers, linen, or books (traditional) or some kind of e l e c t r i c a l appliance (modern). And there you have it.

Probably, giving a freezer won't be classified under a unique anniversary gifts list, but you can make it so. And it will surely be remembered by the WHAT, WHO and WHEN because you took the time to be an informed and aware gift giver. Plus you'll have added the right touch.

Most probably so.

Reading my local paper, I came across a story entitled "Freezer Burned" by Canadian Columnist Nils LING. I was thoroughly entertained and have tried to capture what we all know when it comes to owning a freezer...

I went to the freezer the other day on an archaeological dig for something to eat...Because it is a chest freezer that loads from the top, older food always ends up at the bottom. So you lean over the side and go down into the belly of the beast, layer by layer, era by era, to find something for dinner. It's a chilly trip down memory lane.

Here was the Great Ground Beef Sale of '06. The Special Diet Soup Phase of '04. The Something in an Unlabeled, Recycled Margarine Container of '02. And downward, until you're rooting through unidentifiable plastic tubs, possibly filled with some sort of food, that were placed in there before the fall of the Berlin Wall. ...I pulled from the bottom of the freezer...that had been stuffed in a couple of plastic bags...I knew what she (wife) would say if she caught me with it: "Oh, don't throw that out, I'll use it to make soup." Well, I'll tell you what...
And that's when I came up with it.

When you give the freezer, start the new owners off right. Put an unidentifiable package of mystery at the bottom labeled "The Mascot of the Burn". There. The freezer has it's first rightful occupant.

All is right in the world. And each anniversary gift you give can be as memorable as this.

Note: I made mine from plastic food that you can buy in the toy section of any department or grocery store. The label is made from a canning jar lid.

Oh, and don't forget to tie a big blue or green ribbon around the freezer. Now it can be classified under unique anniversary gifts.






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