If there's a couple you know who are celebrating their anniversary or if you're looking to give your spouse that special something that holds (or will hold) the years of your marriage close to your heart, then start at home.
Your home, their home.
What is the evolution of their life?
What is in the forefront that epitomizes the stages of their marriage?
What do you need to acknowledge for them (or yourselves) that which makes the anniversary monolithic?
Unique anniversary gifts. Anniversary gift ideas. The perfect blend of your knowledge and the chart below is a great start for each anniversary gift.
Unique Anniversary Gifts are easier than you think.
Other than, let's say, the 25th Anniversary where it is customary to buy silver things for the celebration, it is often more interesting to buy what seems appropriate for the particular couple. What about an anniversary theme - what is the couple well known for? What has the couple done in their married life that can be celebrated alongside their anniversary? So... a gift for the 7th anniversary could be a copper colored tie holding a bouquet of Freesia, OR a monogrammed oyster-white sofa throw (linen) might be the "package" wrapped around a string of pearls and pearl cuff links for a 12th anniversary of marriage.
Can't find something appropriately steel for an 11th anniversary? Then get creative with turquoise colored Tulips. Get creative. The word tradition sticks out like a sore thumb but YOU think outside the box, remember? Have fun with it. Run with it.
Just remember the couple for who they are and remember who you are and the style in which you want to gift them.
Some History
While discussing Unique Anniversary Gifts:
Emily Post, the first published (American) author on etiquette informed us in 1922 that although only eight anniversaries were acknowledged, there was a trend toward celebrating other anniversaries.
She put together a list anniversary gift ideas for each of the first 15 years of marriage and one for every 5 years after. We still use this list today even after the American National Retail Jeweler Association upgraded it in 1937.
Using the idea that the longer a couple is married, the more substantial and lasting the gift should be to represent the years married, our society now uses the list below.
I've put a table together with as many options as could be found from various sources on the internet. Either widely accepted or rare or called alternates, this arrangement gives you scads of potential ideas for unique anniversary gifts.
Hmmm. If you think about it, this list is just a guideline, a starting point. What you make of it is entirely up to you. Follow the rules or make your own. Think past the common. Be aware of your desire to get a specific reaction from the gifts given by you.
And whilst your eyes dart back and forth in this table, you'll be getting sleepy....back and forth...sleepy...sleepier....and you'll start to think of an anniversary that is on the horizon....
Be sure to look over the unique anniversary gifts we've conjured up!
Anniversary Gift Ideas to Inspire Unique Anniversary Gifts
Year
Traditional
Modern
Flower
Gemstone
Color
1
Paper
clocks
Carnation, Pansy, Orange Blossom
Gold Jewelry, Fresh Water Pearl, Peridot
Gold or Yellow
2
Cotton
China
Lily of the Valley, Cosmos
Garnet, Rose Quartz
Red
3
Leather
Crystal, Glass
Sunflower, Fuschia
Pearl, Crystal, Jade
White or Jade Green
4
Books, Fruit & Flowers
Electrical Appliances
Geranium (any kind), Hydrangea, Lily of the Valley
Blue Topaz, Amethyst, Blue Zircon
Blue or Green
5
Wood
Silverware
Daisy
Sapphire, Turquoise, Pink Tourmaline
Blue, Pink or Turquoise
6
Sugar, Candy, Iron
Wood
Calla Lily
Garnet, Amethyst, Turquoise
White, Purple, Turquoise
7
Wool, Copper
Desk Sets
Freesia, Arum (Jack in the Pulpit)
Onyx, Lapis Lazuli, Copper, Yellow Sapphire
Yellow or Off White
8
Bronze, Pottery
Linens, Lace
Lilac, Clematis
Tourmaline, Aventurine, Tanzanite
Bronze, Tourmaline, Tanzanite
9
Pottery, Willow, Copper
Leather
Bird of Paradise, Poppy
Lapis Lazuli, Tiger Eye
Terracotta
10
Tin, Aluminum
Diamond Jewelry
Daffodil, Narcissus
Diamond, Black Onyx, Blue Sapphire
Silver or Blue
11
Steel
Fashion Jewelry
Tulip, Morning Glory
Hematite, Turquoise
Turquoise
12
Silk, Linen
Pearls, Colored Gems
Peony
Agate, Pearl, Jade or Colored Gems
Oyster White
13
Lace
Textiles, Furs
Chrysanthemum, Hollyhock
Citrine, Moonstone, Malachite
White
14
Ivory
Gold Jewelry
Orchid, Dahlia
Opal, Moss Agate, Gold Ivory
Ivory
15
Crystal
Watches
Rose
Ruby, Rock Crystal (Quartz)
Ruby Red
16
Peridot
Silver Holloware
Statice
Peridot, Aquamarine
Silver
17
Watch
Furniture
Red Carnation
Citrine, Amethyst
Yellow
18
Cat's Eye
Porcelain
-
Cat's Eye, Chrysoberyl, Opal
Blue
19
Aquamarine
Bronze
-
Aquamarine, Topaz
Bronze
20
China
Platinum
Aster, Day Lily
Emerald, Platinum, Yellow or Golden Diamond
Emerald Green or White
21
-
Brass, Nickel
-
Iolite
Orange
22
-
Copper
-
Spinel (all colors)
Green
23
Create your own
Silver Plate
unique anniversary gifts
Imperial Topaz, Sapphire
Silver
24
-
Musical Instruments
-
Tanzanite
Lavender
25
Silver
Silver
Iris (any kind except blue)
Sterling Silver
Silver
26
-
Original Pictures
-
-
-
27
-
Sculpture
-
-
-
28
-
Orchids
Orchid (any kind)
-
Orchid, Lavender
29
-
Furniture
-
-
-
30
Pearl
Diamond
Lily (any kind), Sweet Pea
Pearls, Diamond, Jade
Green
31
-
Time Pieces
-
-
-
33
Create
Amethyst
your own
unique anniversary gifts
-
34
-
Opal
-
-
-
35
Coral
Jade
African Violet
Emerald, Coral, Jade
Coral
36
-
Bone China
-
-
-
37
-
Alabaster
-
-
-
38
-
Beryl, Tourmaline
-
-
-
39
-
Lace
-
-
-
40
Ruby
Ruby
Gladiola, Nasturtium
Ruby
Ruby Red
41
-
Land
-
-
-
42
-
Improved Real Estate
-
-
-
43
-
Travel
-
-
-
44
-
Groceries
-
-
-
45
Sapphire
Sapphire
Blue Iris
Sapphire, Alexandrite
Sapphire Red
46
-
Original Poetry
-
-
-
47
-
Books
-
-
-
48
-
Optical Goods
-
-
-
49
-
Luxuries
-
-
-
50
Gold
Gold
Yellow Rose, Violet (any kind)
Gold, Imperial or Golden Topaz
Gold
51
-
Blue Sapphire
-
-
-
52
-
Ruby
-
-
-
55
Emerald
, Emerald,Turquoise
Calla Lily
Alexandrite, Emerald
Emerald Green
60
Yellow Diamond
Diamond
Orchid (any kind)
Diamond
Diamond White
65
Blue Sapphire
Star Sapphire,
-
Star Sapphire
Sky Blue, Gray
67
-
Star Sapphire
-
-
Purple
70
Create
your own
unique anniversary gifts
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Platinum
75
Diamond, Diamond-like Stones, Gold, Alabaster
Diamond, Gold
-
Diamond
Diamond White
80
Oak
Diamond, Pearl
-
-
-
85
-
Diamond, Sapphire
-
-
-
90
Granite
Diamond, Emerald
-
-
-
95
-
Diamond, Ruby
-
-
-
100
-
10k Diamond
-
-
-
Each idea should be reckoned with, you reckon?
Check out these unique anniversary gifts and ideas:
4th Anniversary gift idea
Mascot of the Burn
After 4 years of marriage, there arises the probability that the family is starting to get a little larger.
Probably, the Mammas and the Pappas have to start thinking about the grocery bill and how it's getting higher and higher.
Probably, they're thinking "We better buy bulk," and "Where can we store all this stuff when we buy it for .99/pound?" and "Look at the deal on these apples, why I could make pies or Grunt," and "Well, how else can we save on groceries?"
Probably, as a wonderful family you could pitch together, maybe giving them a new freezer. Besides, the 4th anniversary gift giving schedule is fruit & flowers, linen, or books (traditional) or some kind of e l e c t r i c a l appliance (modern). And there you have it.
Probably, giving a freezer won't be classified under a unique anniversary gifts list, but you can make it so. And it will surely be remembered by the WHAT, WHO and WHEN because you took the time to be an informed and aware gift giver. Plus you'll have added the right touch.
Most probably so.
Reading my local paper, I came across a story entitled "Freezer Burned" by Canadian Columnist
Nils LING.
I was thoroughly entertained and have tried to capture what we all know when it comes to owning a freezer...
I went to the freezer the other day on an archaeological dig for something to eat...Because it is a chest freezer that loads from the top, older food always ends up at the bottom. So you lean over the side and go down into the belly of the beast, layer by layer, era by era, to find something for dinner. It's a chilly trip down memory lane.
Here was the Great Ground Beef Sale of '06. The Special Diet Soup Phase of '04. The Something in an Unlabeled, Recycled Margarine Container of '02. And downward, until you're rooting through unidentifiable plastic tubs, possibly filled with some sort of food, that were placed in there before the fall of the Berlin Wall.
...I pulled from the bottom of the freezer...that had been stuffed in a couple of plastic bags...I knew what she (wife) would say if she caught me with it: "Oh, don't throw that out, I'll use it to make soup." Well, I'll tell you what... And that's when I came up with it.
When you give the freezer, start the new owners off right. Put an unidentifiable package of mystery at the bottom labeled "The Mascot of the Burn". There. The freezer has it's first rightful occupant.
All is right in the world. And each anniversary gift you give can be as memorable as this.
Note: I made mine from plastic food that you can buy in the toy section of any department or grocery store. The label is made from a canning jar lid.
Oh, and don't forget to tie a big blue or green ribbon around the freezer. Now it can be classified under unique anniversary gifts.